When a friend, loved one or someone close to us misjudge a situation and
they are down we tend to unload on them with negative comments,
pointing a finger in their face or telling them what is right or wrong.
They do not need that in this particular case. What they need instead
is a real human being next to them, someone to listen to them with
understanding, someone who really cares to tell them that it is ok... to
tell them that things will be ok... to let them know that you
will be next to them... to reaffirm our love and care for them...A true
friend, or loved one should uplift their spirit and help them feel
whole and true... take their hand and tell them that your warmth and
positive spirit will be around if they need to ... pick someone up when
they are down, don't push them even more into uncertainty, self doubt
and isolation... At the end of the day you would want that person to
still be high in your mind and your self respect list, you do not want
that person to be broken, with no self worth or dignity left ... that
wouldn't make you feel good... Share your love, compassion, friendship
and your warmth with a big hug ... Love and Friendship
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