Nope! But this is like cancer. We know what causes it but we don’t know the cure. The majority of women suffer from low self esteem and lack of confidence. They want and need validation on an on- going basis. As a result, they are not certain about what they seek in life. Mind you, this is generalizations, but the interesting thing is that a huge percentage of women feel like this. So, back to the main issue! If a guy is nice, they want a bad boy. If he is a bad boy, they want a good guy. If the guy tries to adjust, he is flaky. How will a guy react then? They say, be yourself! How the heck can I be myself if you don’t let me be? Know what you want and stick with it woman! How would you get the man you seek if you don’t even know what you want?
Wednesday, June 22, 2011
The Real Estate Paradigm
Listen! Among other things, we all want to have sex, make love, habahaba or whatever else you want to call it. I can understand women trying to make it difficult for us, but come one. What is wrong with you? You make it so difficult and we end up giving up and in the end you complain that nobody wants you. Sex is critical when it comes to relationships. It is not the most important thing but when it is absent, it is detrimental. Oh heck… who the fuck am I kidding. It is very important. The way you ladies deal with it right now is like this…. It is like you own a piece of land somewhere and the value of the land is 10,000 but you want to sell it for 50,000. Who in their right mind is going to pay you 50 for something worth 10? And after you complain that you only get losers to be interested. Off course you do. Because the normal guys are not going to give up 50! It is simple. So, wake up… make it difficult if you want… it will make us feel like hunters… but give some glitter of hope… show us that we should continue to try and there is a chance… don’t blow us off completely and expect us to keep pushing… it makes us feel like losers… and we give up. Give us a little something. And BTW, it is not bad to approach a guy when YOU like him… it’s cool… it’s kosher in our book…
What Women Want
The Age Difference
The Age
There is no specific age after which a person can have a relationship, short or long term. However, a person can only consider a relationship when he/she knows themselves and develop a list of the things they are looking for to find on their partner. Only then, they can have at least a small chance to have a happy and fulfilling long term relationship. Even then, when someone is prepared there is no guaranty for anything.